As we continue to struggle through a time of isolation because of the Covid-19 virus, it is time to reflect on God's role in all of this. What is God's message for each of us? Are we listening? Are we going to make any changes to our lifestyle once this time is over?
God didn't make this virus happen. But he allowed it to happen. Just any bad thing that happens in our life, we are meant to grow closer to him as a result of this. God allowed his son Jesus to be crucified out of love for us. Then, as a result of this crucifixion and the resurrection that occurred three days later, the world has never been the same again. The apostles saw that Jesus and his message was real. They saw that he really was the Messiah that the Jewish people had been waiting for. They realized that he came not just to save us but to be with us in his church for the rest of time. Their lives were never the same again. They preached without fear. They, like Jesus, experienced signs and wonders in his name. All of them, except for John, willingly died for this faith. Their lives were transformed by the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus.
Clearly, this Covid-19 virus incident doesn't compare with Jesus death and resurrection. But, for most of us, it has, for a short period of time, dramatically changed the way we live our lives. We cannot attend mass, sporting events, or even be with our extended family and friends. But, it gives us time to reflect, especially now as we begin Holy Week. Am I willing to allow my life to be transformed? How will I react when this threat ends? Will I return to doing things just as I did before this happened? Will I spend less time on the things that don't matter, like TV, sports, partying? Or, will I spend more time growing in my faith by spending time with God? We all have an opportunity to be transformed, to become holy men and women. I pray that we allow this to happen.
God bless
Reflections from Deacon Jay
Tuesday, April 7, 2020
Sunday, November 10, 2019
When good men do nothing
In today’s
Gospel, some Sadducees, those who deny that there is a resurrection, ask Jesus
a question in an attempt to trap him.
They ask him about seven imaginary brothers. The first brother married and then passed
away. Since the woman had no children to
care for her, the second brother married her.
Then, that brother passed away and the third brother married her. This process continued until all seven
brothers had married this woman. So, the
Sadducees wanted to know whose wife this woman would be after the
resurrection.
Of course,
they weren’t interested in Jesus’ answer to this ridiculous question. They expected him to say one of two
things. Either the brothers didn’t need
to marry the woman and support her as was the custom at that time. Or these seven brothers would be fighting
over the same woman after their resurrection.
Instead, Jesus commented that after the resurrection we no longer marry
or are given in marriage.
Throughout
the Gospels, there are stories of people trying to trap Jesus. Even Pilate tried to trap him by asking him:
“Are you the king of the Jews?”
Eventually, they gave up trying to trap him and crucified him. Even then, Jesus out smarted them when he
rose from the dead and they were left with an empty tomb. Then, they were forced to lie and to say
that someone had moved the stone and stolen the body.
The
Pharisees, the Sadducees, and the Romans couldn’t tolerate Jesus’ message. He was a threat to them. Since they couldn’t discredit him, they dealt
with Jesus in the only way that they knew.
They crucified him. Of course,
this is what the Old Testament prophesied and it led to the glory of the
resurrection.
In the first
reading from the Book of Maccabees, we find another seven brothers. These seven brothers refused to eat pork in
violation of God’s law. Each of the
brothers were tortured and killed. When
he was near death, the fourth brother said: “It is my choice to die at the
hands of men with the hope God gives of being raised up by him.”
It is remarkable
that before Jesus’ resurrection, these seven brothers had faith in their
resurrection and were willing to die for it.
These brothers yearn for an end time when God will rule with justice and
peace.
Today,
someone might ask us a question to trap us when they really aren’t interested
in the answer. For example, someone
might ask us how we can oppose abortion.
Aren’t we forcing unwed mothers to have children that they cannot afford
and will be forced to raise in poverty? We
might say that we support adoption. In
fact, I recently saw a study that Catholics are three times more likely to
adopt a child than the general population.
Just like
during Jesus time, those who oppose the truth don’t stop at ridicule. They aren’t willing to tolerate those whose
beliefs oppose theirs and threaten their life style. When
the students from Covington Catholic High School, for example, were approached
by a native American during the Right to Life rally in Washington DC last January,
he and his supporters weren’t interested in tolerating these high school
students. And the Washington Post wasn’t
interested in the welfare of these young men when they posted their inflammatory
article describing the encounter. And
those who threatened these young men on Facebook also weren’t interested in
tolerance.
There is a
price to be paid for proclaiming the truth.
These young men were marching at this large rally proclaiming the truth
that life begins at conception. Some
would say that they were at the wrong place at the wrong time. However, I’d say that they were in the right
place at the right time and were meant to stand up to the intolerance and hate
of those who oppose the truth.
As a hopeful people, trusting in
Jesus, we shouldn’t be depressed or worried about the ridicule and intolerance we
might receive from others who cannot accept Christ or his truth. Like
Christ, we are to respond to them lovingly but firmly. Christ has risen, he has conquered the evil
one, and he has established his church which will survive until the end of
time.
Some of us might be reluctant to
proclaim the truth, especially on controversial topics such as abortion and
same sex marriage. As Abraham Lincoln
once said: "All
it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing." All
of us are called, like the early witnesses of the resurrection, to lovingly
proclaim the Good News of Christ’s resurrection.
Let us all boldly proclaim the truth
with our actions and our words. Let us put
our trust in the power that was unleashed at the opening of that empty tomb two
thousand years ago.
Sunday, July 14, 2019
Won't you be my neighbor
The scholar
of the law asks Jesus: "What must I do to inherit eternal life?" This is a question many of us might like to
ask Jesus: What do I need to do, what
are the rules, maybe even what is the least I can do to sneak into heaven?
So, Jesus
asks him what the law says, and he responds correctly as you would expect from
a lawyer: love God and love your neighbor.
Then, he asks Jesus the tough
question: "Who is my
neighbor?" He was probably
thinking that he was willing to love his family and his friends but he
certainly didn't want to love his enemies or the downtrodden.
So, Jesus
responds with the well-know parable about the Good Samaritan. The priest and the Levite passed by the man
on the opposite side. But, the Samaritan
was moved with compassion at the sight of the man who had been beaten and left
half- dead. The Samaritan treated the
man's wounds, took him to an inn, and paid the innkeeper to care for him.
People hearing this story would have made
excuses for the priest and the Levite. The victim was left half dead we are
told. If they touched the man and he were dead they would have become ritually
unclean and not allowed to officiate or participate in Temple worship, which
their positions required. Others will defend the two men saying they were alone
on a notoriously dangerous road. This could have been a set up, a trap for a
solitary traveler.
Jesus does not condemn the two who passed by. But he refocuses our attention on one person, a foreigner, the Samaritan, who crossed over to the other side and took a chance to help the victim. What is it that makes people reach out to others in their time of need?
Jesus does not condemn the two who passed by. But he refocuses our attention on one person, a foreigner, the Samaritan, who crossed over to the other side and took a chance to help the victim. What is it that makes people reach out to others in their time of need?
When my children were growing up, they
often watched Mr. Rogers Neighborhood.
Mr. Rogers always sang the song: "Won't you be my
neighbor?" I couldn't help but
think about that song as I reflected upon today's Gospel. How neighborly am I? How often do I reach out to someone I barely
know?
As a nation, we are becoming increasingly
divided. It seems to me that we are more
divided now than we have been at any time during my lifetime, except maybe
during the Vietnam War. And this
division has caused some to hunker down and not reach out to others, especially
those who aren't like us. When we ignore
others and don't reach out to those who need our help, we are like the priest
and the Levite who pass by on the opposite side.
As Christians,
as disciples of Christ, we should share his love and compassion with our
neighbor. One way to express love for
one’s neighbor is to perform works of mercy. There are fourteen such works, seven spiritual
and seven corporal. The spiritual works
of mercy are: to convert the sinner; to instruct the ignorant; to counsel the
doubtful; to comfort the sorrowful; to bear wrongs patiently; to forgive
injuries; and to pray for the living and the dead. The corporal works of mercy
are: to feed the hungry; to give drink to the thirsty; to clothe the naked; to
shelter the homeless; to visit the sick; to visit the imprisoned; and to bury
the dead. At first, this list may seem
to be daunting. But, we don't have to do
all of them. We can just begin with one
or two works or mercy to share Christ's love with others.
We may get
discouraged by the problems that we see in our world today because we cannot do
much to fix them. We cannot have much of
an impact on the abandoned and sick at our borders. We probably cannot even do much to assist the
beggars that we see when we attend a football or baseball game in
Cincinnati. While we can give them some
money, we're not even sure if we are helping or hurting them by doing this.
So, what can we
do? There are lots of people in Lebanon
and even in our parish who are hurting physically, emotionally, or spiritually. There are older people who need a helping
hand or a friend. There are young adults
who might appreciate the wisdom and friendship of a senior citizen. We can attend funerals of parishioners to
support the family and set an example of Christian charity. And there are many volunteer opportunities
for us to reach out to others in our community or our parish. We would be helping those in need through
spiritual and corporal works of mercy.
We
can welcome strangers in our lives as well, even those we don’t particularly
care for. When we take the time to get to know our neighbor, we will normally find
some things about him or her that we can relate to. We have a
responsibility as Christian people to invite the refugees in our midst as our
brothers and sisters. Christ passes no
one on the roadside.
Sunday, June 16, 2019
Suffering and spiritual warfare
St Paul tells us in the second reading that: "we
rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and
endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not
disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the
Holy Spirit who has been given to us."
We do have peace to some degree in our life—but with
tribulation. Therefore, the peace attainable in this life does not consist in
the contentment of someone who wants to have no problems, but rather in the
resolute hope of someone who manages to rise above suffering and stays faithful
through endurance. Suffering is necessary for us, because it is the normal way
to grow in virtue. And it leads to joy
and happiness.
Paul teaches that acting like
Christ in the world through the Spirit, fixes our gaze, not only on the present
world, but on the future glory we will share with God. Paul knew, from the trials he underwent and in the
suffering of Christians he visited, that we would need guidance, strength and
endurance from the Holy Spirit.
Paul’s Christian communities faced persecution from
their Roman oppressors and their own Jewish community. And Christians also suffered discord among
their ranks.
In the context of so much
pain, Paul is encouraging the Christians to accept their suffering and see it
as a proving ground for their faith and a sure sign that God has not abandoned
them, but is still loving them and pouring out the Holy Spirit upon them.
As some of
you know, recently our grandson Eli had a skateboarding accident and suffered a
severe concussion. When we visited him
in the hospital on the evening of the accident, he was heavily drugged and was
frequently flaying his arms and legs.
When he was awake, he just wanted to leave. Of course, the nurse told us that this was
all normal and was a good sign.
Fortunately, he is doing well now and will just have to be careful and
take it easy this summer. Your
prayers were reassuring to us and to his
parents during this crises. I'm certain
that your prayers helped him to recover quickly. Thank you for praying for him.
In the days
following Eli's accident, I reflected on my reaction to the accident. I must admit that I was afraid. I was afraid for Eli, that he might suffer some
permanent physical damage as a result of his concussion. And I was afraid of the long term impact that
this might have on our family.
Then, I
began reading "Fearless, a Catholic women's guide to spiritual
warfare". It told me not to be
afraid, to trust God, to submit to his will in all things, and that he is in
charge.
I needed to
be reminded of these things. I like to
tackle problems head on, to do something, to find a solution, to fix
things. Sometimes, I just need to let go
and let God.
In the book
Fearless, the author tells us that fear comes from the devil not from God. She tells us that fear is a matter of
spiritual warfare. But, we have a
guardian angel, the Church founded by Jesus, and the sacraments he initiated to
help us through these crises. She
encourages us to look to scripture for answers to these problems. And she mentions several instances in her
life where she did this. While I read
scripture, often I am slow to turn to it for answers when I face either
physical or spiritual crises in my family.
In the future, I plan on looking to God's word more often when I am
struggling with a crisis. And I plan to
talk to God about my fears and my worries.
To fight
fear from the evil one, we must put on the armor of God and strengthen our
faith which is the critical shield in our armor. Then, our spiritual backbone will be prepared
for the inevitable next crisis. But, if
our faith is weak, we will be vulnerable to the attacks of the devil.
The devil loves to attack families. He especially tries to get us to question our
faith because of the difficulties we are facing. It may be our physical suffering or that of
our family members. Or he may attack us
through problems that we are facing at work, in our marriage, or in raising our
children. He also attacks us through the
faith, or lack thereof, of those closest to us. He attacks us by encouraging us to worry
about problems in our nation and our church, which we have virtually no control
over.
Today is
Fathers' day. Fathers have a special
responsibility to protect their families from both physical and spiritual
harm. So, I encourage all fathers to
put on the armor of faith and to defend their families from the wickedness and
snares of the devil, namely, the lies that our society is selling, to all of us
and especially to our children. Do not
be afraid. Turn to Jesus and to his
Church. Trust that your family will find
peace and joy in Jesus, the way, the truth, and the life.
Sunday, May 19, 2019
True love
Last week I watched a movie on Netflix titled
“Her only choice”. It is about a young
married woman who has been trying to conceive for several years’. Finally, she is pregnant with her first child. But, she also finds out that she has an
aggressive form of breast cancer. Her
doctor, her husband, and even her parents encourage her to have an abortion so
that she can begin cancer treatments immediately and save her life. She wants to keep her child. When she is explaining this to her mother,
she asks her mother: “Would you be willing to die for me?” Her mother answers that she absolutely would. Then, the woman explains: “I feel the same
way about the baby inside of me. I am
willing, if necessary, to die for that baby.” Eventually, she receives some treatment
while she is pregnant, has a healthy baby and survives breast cancer.
I thought of that movie as I was reflecting on
today’s Gospel. Jesus tells us: “As I
have loved you, so you also should love one another.” Jesus died on the cross for us. He sacrificed his life for us to give us
eternal life. This is the type of sacrificial
love that we should have for each other.
We, as followers of Christ, should be
recognized by our love. Jesus says, “This is how all will know that you are my
disciples, if you have love for one another”. We must ask ourselves: Does the world plainly
see us as people who reflect Jesus' love? Can it be said of us what was said of
the early Christian community, “See how much they love one another”?
Our culture encourages love, but this love is
a wimpy love, a love which is based upon a feeling, a love which is there in
the good times, but not when times get tough.
Our culture says that it is OK to fall out of love, that’s what no-fault
divorce is there for. Our culture says
that it is OK to kill the baby in the womb even after that baby has a heartbeat. Our culture says that it is OK to terminate a
life when suffering is involved. Our
culture doesn’t know what love is all about.
Now, I’m not condemning those who have fallen for the lies of our
culture. Like the devil, our culture can
make these actions seem attractive.
True love embraces suffering and sacrifice. True love cares more for the other person’s
needs than for your own. When times
get tough, the couple in love accepts the challenge as the woman in the movie
did. When times get tough toward the end
of our lives, we offer up the pain and the suffering that we endure, we don’t
run away from it. When a couple has a
surprise pregnancy, they accept the challenge of the child and quickly grow to
love it.
In the first reading, Paul tells the members
of the early church: “It is necessary for us to undergo many hardships to enter
the kingdom of God.” That statement was
true in the first century and it is just as true in today. At times, life is hard. But, today’s hardship is short and the
kingdom of heaven is forever. The second
reading tells is that in heaven: “He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and
there shall be no more death or mourning, wailing or pain, for the old order
has passed away.” As we struggle with
hardships, we must always keep the goal, eternal life in heaven with the
Father, in mind.
The new commandment of love also offers an
antidote to our human tendency to withdraw when our feelings get hurt. We are
commanded to stretch ourselves, all the way to the cross, if necessary. We are
commanded to go beyond ourselves, even when it may mean being hurt again.
Unless we do this, real love is unable to flourish. We cannot forget the
uniqueness of what we have been given: a covenant with Christ himself. By our
efforts we keep that covenant alive and vital: we keep the sign of love ever
visible to our world.
Jesus’ love is a model, a gift, and a
challenge. Jesus provides the ultimate
role model for us. He shows us what love
is all about. His love is a gift. He loves us each unconditionally – sinners
and saints. And it is also a challenge. We can never love Jesus as much as he loves
us. But we can try given our own
limitations.
We all carry our own unique crosses. Our crosses aren’t as heavy as Jesus’ cross
was. But, at times, they can seem
overwhelming to us. Let Jesus help you with
your cross. Don’t put down your cross;
carry it proudly. Eventually, this cross
will lead you to heaven where all tears will be wiped away.
Sunday, April 7, 2019
The woman caught in adultery
Jesus is being tested by the scribes and Pharisees. They brought a woman to him who had been
caught in adultery. If Jesus says that the woman should be stoned, he would
suffer the wrath of the Romans who forbade the Jews permission to
execute. If Jesus tells them to
free her, then he can be accused of breaking the law of Moses. Instead he
puts it back on the accusers, “Let the one among you who is without sin be
the first to throw a stone at her.”
Jesus actions provide a model for all of us. He responds in mercy and love. He tells those who are without sin to cast
the first stone. So, he doesn't condemn
either the woman caught in adultery or the those waiting to stone her.
Biblical scholars have long wondered what Christ was writing
on the ground as he bent down during this encounter. Some say it was the sins of all the
accusers. Others say that he was merely
giving them a chance to reconsider their position so that he wouldn't have to
embarrass them. In any case, the
fundamental lesson is clear: we are all in need of God's mercy; we all have
sinned and forfeited God's glory.
Young and old, the accusers walked away. And so
the adulteress was free to go. Everyone
is in need of God's mercy. Realizing
that we need God's mercy enables us to forgive others and treat them with the love
that Christ requires.
We experience God's mercy and love many times in our lives. We especially experience it in the sacrament
of reconciliation. He is always willing
to forgive our sins, no matter how serious they may be. Jesus is waiting for us in the
confessional. He isn't there to condemn
or stone us. He is there to remove the burden
of sin from us and to return us to his graces.
Jesus tells the woman: "Go and sin no more." Notice that he doesn't tell her that her
behavior was OK. He acknowledges that
she has been sinning and he tells her to stop it. Her sin is not accepted or approved by
God. It is important that she stop
sinning because eventually she will face the consequences of her sin. Our God loves us so much that he gave us a
free will. He loves us, even when we sin. But, if we continue to turn away from him by
sinning, not loving God or our neighbor, he will condemn our actions in his
judgment of us after we die.
Have we ever been tested?
I suspect that most of us are being tested all of the time. We might be tested by the behavior of some of
those close to us - our friends, our neighbors, our children, our
grandchildren, our siblings. We might
be asked to accept their sinful behavior.
And, if we do accept it, eventually this acceptance becomes approval and
maybe even support. If we do not accept
their sinful behavior, we might be viewed as judgmental or even worse.
I see many examples of
the love and mercy of God in the Gospels.
These would include the prodigal son, the good shepherd, and many
more. But, we also have many examples of
the judgment of God such as the rich man, the narrow gate, and sheep or
goats.
Our society affirms the love and mercy of God but rejects the
idea of him judging us. Is Jesus loving
and merciful or is he a just judge? He
is both. If we reject his love and turn
away from him by sinning, he will accept our decision on judgment day and will
give us our just due. If Jesus weren't a
just judge, our behavior wouldn't matter.
Our free will would be meaningless.
God respects our decisions.
As we witness the confusion which divides families and
paralyzes our nation, today's Gospel provides a model for is. We, like Jesus, must always respond in mercy
and love. It is not appropriate that we
stone others either by our actions or our words, no matter what they have done. And, it also isn't appropriate that we accept
or support sinful behavior. We love the
sinner by condemning the sin.
Jesus, give us the courage to defend your truth. Holy Spirit, give us the words to say in the
midst of difficult conversations or encounters.
Fill us with the Holy Spirit, Lord, so we can be your faithful and true
disciples.
Sunday, February 24, 2019
Love your enemies
In
today’s first reading, King Saul has been stalking David, his rival, who has
been hiding in the desert. Saul had
already tried to kill David several times.
This time the king has gone out to the desert with a party of three
thousand men to search for David.
Saul realizes
that David has won the hearts of his people, who sang, “Saul has killed his
thousands but David his ten thousands.” And, Saul also knows the hand of the Lord now
rests on David.
Saul and David
have become deadly enemies. David crept
into the camp of Saul and his three thousand men. He stands over the sleeping king, looking
down on him. His loyal and ruthless
kinsman Abishai whispers to him: “God has delivered your enemy into your grasp
this day. Let me nail him to the ground
with one thrust of the spear.”
But David will
not allow it. He says: “Do not harm him,
for who can lay hands on the Lord’s
anointed and remain unpunished?” David
has a chance to kill his enemy. But he
doesn’t kill him.
Instead, David
takes Saul’s spear, the symbol of the king’s authority and power, used in
battle. He goes a distance and calls
across to the camp. David says to Saul: “The
Lord will reward each man for his
justice and faithfulness. Today, though
the Lord delivered you into my
grasp, I would not harm the Lord’s
anointed.”
This incident
provides an example of what Jesus is asking of us in today’s Gospel which is
from what is called the Sermon on the Plain.
We find in these few verses an agenda for transforming the world.
This Sermon on
the Plain is included in three successive Gospel readings. Last week we heard of God’s love for the
least: the poor, those who weep, who hunger, who suffer for Jesus’ sake. Next week the emphasis is on loving those inside
our camp, those who agree with us. This week’s reading directs our attention to
those outside our camp, those who disagree with us.
If we have any
enemies, either as individuals or as a community, we are to love them. In this light, David is offered to us as an
example of such love in action. Jesus'
words are demanding—seemingly impossible at times. But it can be helpful to realize that this command doesn’t speak about transforming
an enemy into a friend. It says to love
your enemy precisely as enemy.
That is, you are to love
the one who hates you.
Often, it is
easy for us to criticize and maybe even hate those we disagree with. This is especially true, as Christians, when
we witness the actions of those who are openly disobeying and maybe even
ridiculing God's laws. But, instead, we
are meant to pray for, even bless them.
He or she may be
a politician who consistently supports abortion or a movie star who openly
attacks the Catholic church. Or maybe we
see a posting on Facebook which attacks our beliefs. If we choose to respond, can we respond in
love and not hate?
All of us should
focus on breaking the cycle of hate which seems to be prevalent today. If we lash
out at those who disagree with us on sensitive topics, we are likely to unleash
a torrent of hate. These skirmishes can
sting, cause harm, and provoke vengeance in return.
Such moments
also have an impact on us, they transform us.
A certain kind of dislike can harden or fester within, resulting in an ongoing habit of striking out
as a method of coping. It releases a
poison into our system, settling into our heart and changing it. A heart can become cold or hard over the
years.
This cannot be
the heart of a disciple of Jesus Christ.
Jesus tells us to "Do to others as you would have them do to
you." Violence and destruction are
only brought to an end by those who refuse to participate, by those who will
not return evil for evil. Violence will
cease only with those who are willing to absorb the impact of the blow so that
it stops here and now, not going any further.
Does
this mean that there is no room for hatred in life? No, there are things to hate. We can hate
a system that allows a young child to
die in an abusive home; a cultural attitude that fosters hatred for any
group—whether on the basis of nationality, ethnicity, religious faith, or gender; policies that allows the killing of innocent people, especially
the unborn and the elderly.
We might, at times, tolerate these
systems, and even inadvertently support them.
Systems can be worthy of hatred. So can policies. And cultural attitudes
and values. And the things people do can also be worthy of our hatred.
But as for the people: Love your
enemies, do good to them, bless them, pray for them. The old saying is: love the sinner, hate the sin.
Sometimes
transformation does come. At the end of the story, after David speaks to Saul,
Saul’s final words to David are: “Blessed be you, my son David. You will do many things and will succeed in
them”.
We witness transformation whenever we
come here: bread and wine changed into the Body and Blood of Christ. May all of us, as disciples of Jesus, grow in
love, for each other and for all others, especially our enemies.
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